
You probably don't need more parenting advice.
You need to understand why parenting is activating the fuck out of you in the first place.
Maybe you know yelling isn't helping.
You know your kid isn't trying to trigger you.
You know you want to be more present.
You know you don't want to spend their entire childhood waiting for parenting to get easier.
And yet...
When the whining starts.
When you've answered the same question four times.
When nobody is listening.
When the house is a disaster.
When your partner isn't moving with the same urgency you are.
When everybody needs something from you at once...
All the things you KNOW can suddenly become inaccessible.
That's the gap we're working on.
The Self Healing Parents is my private ongoing community for parents who want to understand the person underneath the parenting reaction.
Every month, we'll explore a different theme through my 4 Pillar Framework:
Pillar 1: Past + Inner Work
Understanding what parenting is bringing up from your own history.
Pillar 2: In-the-Moment Regulation
Learning what happens when you're activated and creating more space between trigger and reaction.
Pillar 3: Practical Systems + Capacity
Addressing the support, expectations, boundaries, environment and energy leaks affecting how much you actually have available.
Pillar 4: Identity + Self-Concept
Looking at the beliefs, roles and identities underneath the patterns—and intentionally choosing what comes next.
Inside the community:
You'll receive weekday voice-note education and support from me centered around our monthly theme.
Some will teach.
Some will help you reflect.
Some will give you something practical to try.
And some will probably start with, "Okay, this literally just happened in my house and we need to talk about it..."
This isn't another 30-day challenge.
We're working with patterns that, for many of us, have been developing for decades.
Give yourself time to actually change them.
FOUNDING MEMBER PRICING
$333/year
or
$47/month
Founding annual members can keep their $333/year rate for as long as they remain continuously enrolled.
You don't need to become a completely different parent.
Let's understand what's getting in the way of the parent you already know you want to be.
Welcome to The Self Healing Parents.